Friends...

One of the very early advises (In my growing years) I received from my elder sister was to make good friends and be a good friend..... my school education was also very instrumental in imbibing some of these basic values .As year passed I  met a lot of  people ..... Most of them were with me for atleast a year or two ....and some of them are still there with me (I call them friends :) ) ...... ....
As I was just coming into teenage I started to hear another version about human beings I was told that world outside is very selfish.... competitive.....Its difficult to survive ....don't trust anyone ......... However the thought  that people around you are always good is so powerful .....my desire to know unknown people was very strong  ....So  I kep t discovering them.... It was fun.... and some times fatal..... and I managed gathered some pearls ... I met people who were my critique... well wishers .... most of them were a worried lot because of my non existence common sense & logical reasoning.......
I still experiment with life .... and I hope I get to gather some more jewels for lifetime .........

Signing off for the day

Vanita

My Friend's Ms. X

Its been two years since I heard about Ms. X from my  friend. Actually his roommates enthusiastically told me about his crush Ms. X. I told him to take the girl out on date ( I always have opinions and never think twice before offering it) :) .... He never dated the girl. All he has done it in past two years is to drop her home from a Dandiya night, offered to watch a Marathi drama with his roommates which she politely turned down...... I used to hear ; I  saw her near garden she looked beautiful , our eyes met at lobby...etc etc. etc....
Yesterday we met near his office (location : lobby outside office entrance) & created all kind of ruckus to meet his Ms. X ; I have never saw him so shy & nervous... It was wonderful to see my friend actually liked someone ..... he felt some good emotions for someone in life (As usual since men are bit slow and he has still not understood it ..... :)) .......I hope he does else some one else will fly away with Ms. X , and he would be terribly hurt.......

Signing off
Vanita

Smart Bandar

A friend of mine who is a software  engineer sent me this link jobs.smartbandar.com .Its been a year since the site exists . My friend has created this website . I asked him , you are calling your website "Smart Bandar" (Bandar means Monkey ) and you expect people to access your website.... to which he simply replied aren't we suppose to evolve from Monkeys.....We are smart and hence we try to make money out of everything..... I said whats the relevance can you explain .......He told me try applying for a job and I said am not gonna fill your data bank.... he requested me to please click once ( just imagine all this conversation on Gtalk .... since its free :P) ... being a true friend I did as I was told and to my utter surprise I didn't have to register ........I was very happy..I was directly sending an email to my recruiter.... I said great ... then I asked why are u posting free jobs ....to which he simply replied "I want this world to come closer , Money is not everything " I fell off the chair I was sitting on....... He  said he woul earn money from ads posted on his website and Intention is definitely not revenue generation...Just to bring people of common interest together .......So the Humans always remember that we are smart bandar

Over all the look wise the website has lot of scope for improvement..The about us section is empty... the Companies section is terrible.....But overall its a good attempt to take Jobsearches to a new level....
My friend has managed 282 job postings in one year.... I guess it isn't bad at all.......And Anything FREE is gonna catch eye :) :)

Regards
Vanita Bodke

Web:smart bandar

The week that went by..........

The week which went by was simply amazing..... ... One of the rarest wonderful time I ever spent....... It starts from my mother without whom this could have been just another week; she has been really cool about I becoming extra social since 9th January 2010 , that was last Saturday .The week that went by was awesome; I helped a friend for cooking dinner & enjoyed the dinner with colleagues at her place on Saturday , Sunday I was out throughout the day , the good part of the day was I actually drew my friends crazy ....... then came "Happy Vodafone Tuesday" ........ We ( I and another set of friends) played snooker,bowling, bumping cars , watched "paranormal activity" and played net cricket..........whew..... met a friend on Wednesday who had came from UK.....And today am out with friends again , Had great Gossip session .....and we all were only girls... ... What a week ?!?!

I hardly get any sleep when its change of place ( Am at a friend's place ) & for the first the first time I am liking it . I got time to write today & I liked what I was writing about..........

Wanna write some philosophical stuff ...... lets see if I can write one more..........

Signing off
Vanita

Raat Gayi Baat Gayi-Review

Last week I saw this movie directed by Saurabh Shukla with some of the eminent actors who rarely work with mainstream. These actors/director have successfully established their own community who make movie for certain category of people.....Movies about love which are not set in fantasy land but in the realistic situation.....Its more about taking care of your love and not about high moral standards.
I immensely liked Raat Gayi Baat Gayi; the movie was a complete laughter riot and with ease it
touched subjects like infidelity , Sacrifice for partners, possessiveness four partner which are part of human nature ..... The movie highly suggests that anybody can flip . It also goes on to show how Indian woman take a brave step of ignorance towards their husband's behavior of rowing eyes to keep the family together.
The movie has lot of relevance to today's Indian urban society where the definition of morality are changing. All in all a very well made movie.The movies music is good too. Its contemporary & not run of mill type.........

I look forward to such movies.

Vanita

Movie : Raat Gayi Baat Gayi
Language : Hindi
Website: www.raatgayibaatgayi.com